Are you a new blog writer? Then congratulations! You’re doing something new for your brain. According to neurologist, when we’re learning or doing something new, can prevent or delay the aging processing. Whether you’re starting to write, learning how to sing, dance, speak a brand new language, reading a new book, watch movies, or even play some video games. Some other ways may help are, become socialize, have a religion, eating right, exercise regularly. Of course, the environment where we live in, unfortunately, we don’t have the power to control it. So do what we can do and what we should do, and make sure try not to overdo anything, even it’s good for you. Then leave the rest to God.

Movie_Bridesmaids

“Bridesmaids”, is a hilarious movie. Oh, and it’s rated “R”. And yes, you can tell from the beginning of the movie. Lillian is getting marry, she invite her best friends for her maids of honor. Annie, Lillian's long term friend, and Helen, Lillian's fiancé's boss are one of the bridesmaids. Some many things happened before the wedding. Bridesmaids are getting to know each other. And they cannot get along with each other; sometimes even try to do some silly things just to prove that she is the best friend of Lillian.

Especially, Annie’s been suffering from some serious lost, her business, Cake Baby, her boy friend, and then lost her job, broke and kick out of the apartment that she co-rented with some other people. And she found that she no longer the best friend of Lillian. And that’s when the competition between Annie and Helen.

It’s difficult for people to recover from their past miseries. Like Annie, she just cannot through all that had happened to her. Every time, when something is happen, she’s always complaining for others, from the beginning to now.

Yes, it’s normal for people have some time to recover from it. When it takes too long to get over it, you’ll become depressed and the people around you won’t be able to stand you anymore.

Again, you need some patient friend(s), relative(s) to help you out. Or in all case, God will be the only one.

You can be alone but not lonely.

I don’t have any feeling about it before. But now I can totally understand it. The other day I had a wisdom tooth pulled out and a root canal for my other tooth. I was sad, kind of scared, pain, so alone at that moment. First I felt that all my wisdom teeth were gone and my wisdom too. And how I wish my dentist is a Christian, and then he would pray for me before he did it. And then I thought that I should call up a friend to pray for me for it. But I cannot, because I had the root canal first then he found out that that wisdom tooth is a must go too. I was too sad, numb, and frustrated to make any phone call. So I prayed silence in my mind myself. I prayed for the dentistry office, all the dentists and staffs. And especially I prayed for that particular dentist and staff and myself and the tools that were going to be used for me.

Yes, most of the time when things happened. You are alone, even your friends or relatives are with you. They might not notice it or they don’t know how to help you or they might sometimes make the situations worse.

But always remember God is with us all the time.

I really thank one of my friends; she knows ahead that I’m going have that. So she called me and prays for me couple of times just to make sure that I’m ok. Also really appreciate that my kids’ understanding. And help me a lot on everything, cooking, pouring the water for me, and keep me company at all time. Well, am I the lucky one, aren’t you? We should thank God and praise Him all the time. Very good bible verses to share with you. Psalm 139: 9  - 10