prioritize

God 
Yourself
Family
Career
Church
Everything else

If you don't want or don't know or for any other reason you don't care and love yourself?
How in the world that you will and can love and take care of your loved ones?

And if you don't know or feel that someone is always love and be there for you unconditionally, you will never be able to give love.

Trust me then your career will come to you naturally.

Once a mom was complaining that her son won't care about her anymore.

 "Oh! Since he has his own family, he ran away from my life."

Knowing that you have been raising your kid right, he is not just can take care of his own life,  he is capable of taking good care of others now!